Conquering Criticism

September 2, 2015 Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Google+ Articles of the Day


One of the things I have learnt in life is that people would criticize and judge you regardless of what you do or do not. People will always find reasons to criticize who you are, how you think, what you stand for, what you represent. What anyone says does not define you. I’ve had people question why I remained in an abusive and depressive marriage, had the same people criticize and judged me when I eventually walked out of it. I’ve had some question how I could rise so soon after leaving the marriage. If only they understand, even though I went through everything I went through, it was important in my journey. Nothing I went through is ever wasted. Even when I went out of God’s will marrying someone I had no business marrying, I was still in His will. I needed to fail, be stepped upon, crumbled up and humbled.

Eniola Adeniji

It doesn’t matter who support or celebrate what you are doing, it really doesn’t matter, don’t mistake your Victory; Your Victory isn’t to change the mind of your critic or enemy but to fulfill your purpose and destiny in life. You just have to keep on going, if God gave you the grace to start anything, He will bring you through any adversity into your place of rest. Nothing anyone says will change your victory and while they run their mouth, be busy fulfilling Destiny and giving God the praise for all the things he brought you through. After years of going through hell and abuse, you’ve earned this place, you have a right to be happy and there is nothing anyone says or do that will take away your joy “The Joy of the Lord is your strength. The battle was never your “It is and will always be the Lords”.

It is a new beginning and I intend to keep on going and finish what I started. So Get up, stay up and keep going